Jealousy: Taming the Beast

Jealousy: Taming the Beast

I sat in on a group conversation about jealousy this week. The attendees were made up mostly of those in polyamorous and open relationships. For this group of people, jealousy is an emotion that requires honest investigation if they are to successfully live their...
4 Steps To Heal Wounds and Deepen Intimacy

4 Steps To Heal Wounds and Deepen Intimacy

New Ways to Heal Old Wounds No matter how well we were parented, cared for, and protected, every one of us grows into an adult carrying emotional wounds that formed negative beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Some of us experienced wounding in our family...
Desire: The Missing Link

Desire: The Missing Link

What drives committed long-term partners to seek out affairs? Desire for a specific person? A need for more sexual fulfillment? What are they not getting at home that moves someone to look elsewhere? The clients I’ve had over the years, who looked for sex outside of...
How to Rekindle the Bond of Love and Intimacy

How to Rekindle the Bond of Love and Intimacy

Tips for couples who’ve lost that lovin’ feeling Intimacy is the foundation to our relationships. When it’s burning bright, everything flows with ease, patience, forgiveness, light-heartedness and safety. Yes, safety. Sharing a feeling of intimacy with our partner...