The Spiral Effect of Mis-Matched Desire

The Spiral Effect of Mis-Matched Desire

  The #1 Challenge My Clients Deal With and How To Fix It   Let’s unpack one of the most common complaints I hear from men about their partners when they come to see me for sex and intimacy coaching. “We don’t have sex anymore. I don’t understand why” These...
Learning how to fight like a Ninja!

Learning how to fight like a Ninja!

8 rules to help you and your partner “fight” well. Being forced to stay home together can put our relationship skills to the test. Suddenly the person we chose to support and nourish us with their love and protection is pushing our buttons and causing us...
Why It’s Nice to Be Naughty

Why It’s Nice to Be Naughty

How many people have you been nice to over the past week? Between grocery clerks, fellow drivers, your neighbors, your family members, coworkers, it probably adds up to quite a few. Most of us are pretty good at being nice. We can practice being nice pretty much...
There’s an Elephant in my Relationship

There’s an Elephant in my Relationship

How to talk to your partner about sex Strip away the distractions and we’re suddenly confronted with the low level stress that is driving us to distraction in the first place. We’re being forced to stop seeking outside of ourselves and directed to start looking at...
Loving, in Cruise Control

Loving, in Cruise Control

How to Shift Your Relationship Back into Gear You’re driving down the freeway, starting out on a multi-hour road trip. At first there’s a lot to pay attention to. The details of where you’re headed, easy access to things like water or a snack. You set your preferred...
Are You Being Sexually Authentic?

Are You Being Sexually Authentic?

How to Communicate Your Desires With Your Partner A client this week shared with me that the reason she doesn’t want to show her partner the new kinky sex toys she ordered is because he might make her feel silly. She’s assuming he won’t share her desires, but she’s...