Are You Being Sexually Authentic?

Are You Being Sexually Authentic?

How to Communicate Your Desires With Your Partner A client this week shared with me that the reason she doesn’t want to show her partner the new kinky sex toys she ordered is because he might make her feel silly. She’s assuming he won’t share her desires, but she’s...
Jealousy: Taming the Beast

Jealousy: Taming the Beast

I sat in on a group conversation about jealousy this week. The attendees were made up mostly of those in polyamorous and open relationships. For this group of people, jealousy is an emotion that requires honest investigation if they are to successfully live their...
4 Steps To Heal Wounds and Deepen Intimacy

4 Steps To Heal Wounds and Deepen Intimacy

New Ways to Heal Old Wounds No matter how well we were parented, cared for, and protected, every one of us grows into an adult carrying emotional wounds that formed negative beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Some of us experienced wounding in our family...
Desire: The Missing Link

Desire: The Missing Link

What drives committed long-term partners to seek out affairs? Desire for a specific person? A need for more sexual fulfillment? What are they not getting at home that moves someone to look elsewhere? The clients I’ve had over the years, who looked for sex outside of...